Comment on what is a good self hostable alternative to facebook messenger
stratself@lemdro.id 23 hours ago
Matrix, and I recommend selfhosting Continuwuity as it is lightweight and easy to spin up. Your other option could be XMPP with Snikket or proper Prosody.
Though do you have any particular features you wanna bring over from Facebook Messenger?
ArborNode@lemmy.shutes.org 14 hours ago
Continuwuity is so easy the setup and maintain. If you want to self host a matrix server, I couldn’t recommend this enough.