One thing I’ve been reading about in Asian countries primarily is that women in the work force are disproportionately screwed when it comes to their careers and starting a family. The government and patriarchal society expects them to leave their career to start a family and they get left behind once they’re ready to go back. It’s also harder now a days to raise kids even with 2 incomes, lots of women just don’t want to bother and I understand why. But the pressure is still very much there by society and men who do want a family, especially in those cultures. So now they’re fed up with dating and choose Ai boyfriends or no boyfriends instead.

I sorta get it, I did the online dating thing and it was sorta difficult to find other people who 100 percent didn’t want kids like I did. Ended up working out for me but I know I’m an outlier.