Because it clearly it is a choice you’ve. I’m level 26 and I can guarantee that the vast majority of my encounters with other players doesn’t start with them shooting me and most of them end with neither of us shooting. The ARC community (not EVERY arc player since apparently that needs to be explicitly spelt out for you) acknowledges that solos are less sweating (Apparently need to spell this out as well. Not agreeing to be friends but agreeing that you’re less likely to get shot).

Most players do not get the kind of experience you’re talking about, which means whatever it is you’re doing in game is making you have the experience you’re complaining about. And considering how you’ve presented yourself so far I’m not surprised you get shot.