pancakesyrupyum

@pancakesyrupyum@kbin.social

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why can't I argue against claims of suffering?⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Hey, are you doing okay?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Call it what it is⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Haven’t seen a particularly good BF deal in quite a few years.

  Still punch the clerk at KMart though, it’s tradition.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why can't I argue against claims of suffering?⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  So here’s my perspective, as somebody who took many years of struggle and therapy to come to grips with the idea that I was abused and raped by a romantic partner:

  For the person from the position of power, or a third party, you don’t get to decide the reality of the person experiencing the suffering. For the person it’s happening to - whatever their suffering is, it’s valid and real. That doesn’t belittle someone who has experienced worse. Everyone has their personal struggles. We’d all do better to consider other people’s experiences as valid and come at disagreements from a desire to learn and care.

  Arguing for the sake of arguing is furiously jacking off your privilege boner for no real progress or useful outcome, other than feeling superior to someone lesser than you.

  I have no earthly idea the context of why you’re asking though.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why can't I argue against claims of suffering?⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Who are you?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why can't I argue against claims of suffering?⁩ ⁨⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  be beloved problematic cishet white comedian man
  I don’t get to decide whether or not I hurt somebody
  sad trombone noises