Comment on Nick Offerman Slams ‘Homophobic Hate’ Against His ‘The Last of Us’ Episode: ‘It’s Not a Gay Story. It’s a Love Story, You A–hole!’

• MyDearWatson616@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’ve had more dick in my mouth than your mother, don’t call me a bigot for using adjectives.

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  • Kecessa@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    “I’ve got a black friend, I can’t be racist!”

    Yeah… Go take a walk and have a good reflection on the way you see things.

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• Maalus@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Because they were asked to specify what kind of love story it is?

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  • WaxedWookie@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If they were black, it would similarly be a black love story - but what do you think choosing to describe it as a black love story indicates?

    There’s a million different lenses to look through when describing a story or a relationship - the aspects we choose to point to (particularly unprompted, as was the case for the trolls) tend to indicate more about us than the story - particularly when they have no meaningful bearing on the story.

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    • Maalus@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      It indicates that it is a love story between two black people. You drawing attention to it as if saying “black” is some forbidden, taboo word / description is the problem.

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      • WaxedWookie@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Saying they’re black or gay when it has no bearing on the story doesn’t tell anyone much. You didn’t choose to say they were loving, outdoorsy, not super-physical, middle-aged, wealthy, blonde, family-oriented… Noone is coming out to crucify me here - talking about race isn’t taboo - but the non-relevant aspects of the relationship you choose to highlight for reasons tells plenty about you.

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  • Cyv_@kbin.social ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    By who? Unless you're clicking tags on netflix I don't think anyone is going to have this hypothetical convo:

    Oh there's a great episode you should watch

    Oh whats it about? Tell me more?

    Its gay

    Oh ok thanks, all I need to know.

    The quote is about them calling it a "gay story" not a "post apocalyptic gay love story". The reductive 2 word description is rightfully annoying to a man who brought a well written and fleshed out love story to life, only to be told he made a "gay story"

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    • Maalus@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      By literally the OP above? They were specifically asked how would they clarify and they responded as a “gay love story”.

      Buddy, you can be angry about whatever you want, but it is not “irrellevant to the plot” that there is a relationship between two people in the series. It is not irrellevant that it is between two men or two women. They can desribe it any way they want to, and it is not reductive to call it a “gay love story”.

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  • winky9827b@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    No.

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• Nougat@kbin.social ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  If the sexual orientation and origin of the characters don’t make a difference in the story, ...

  I would argue that the sexual orientation of the characters does make a difference in the story.

  They're living in a world with little trust, and they have to overcome that. Neither one can be sure that the other is trustworthy, and won't kill them when they're not looking. And they have to overcome the remaining stigma of same-sex relationships, which could end very badly in the same way. They are both walking through two minefields, in a way which is different from how a similar heterosexual story would play out. Maybe?

  It is definitely first and foremost a love story, but it's not only a love story, and looking away from other aspects does a disservice to everyone.

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  • Kecessa@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    But the same story could have been told with an heterosexual couple or even two people that had a platonic relationship…

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    • Nougat@kbin.social ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Each of those (especially the platonic relationship one) would be a different story, even if they would all be first and foremost "love stories."

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