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• DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  She’s fully presenting as female. The clothes, the make-up, the hair, the style of glasses, the style of bag, the style of jewellery.

  Anyone calling her “sir” is specifically trying to be assholes, or the clips are faked.

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  • vacuumoftalent@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    In California there’s a lot of people that look like her whether they be biologically male or female and say their pronouns are he/him, so how are servers expected to juggle the different preferences?

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    • DerisionConsulting@lemmy.ca ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      When in doubt, just don’t use pronouns or any terms referring to gender. Using the word “you” is pretty safe, especially when there is only one person at the table. When the server is talking to back of house, they generally refer to people by table. The cooks don’t know or care who’s actually eating the food, they just know the ticket/table number.

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    • Skullgrid@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      By using you or that person there.

      Also fuck you

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    • LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.one ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I was a server, and this was never a problem and isn’t even a potential problem. I can’t even think of a time when I had to use someone’s third-person pronouns. You’re trying to create outrage over a problem that only exists inside the minds of bigots.

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• Jordan117@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Servers don’t get Paid Enough for This

  Treating customers respectfully is part of the job description.

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  • Cralder@feddit.nu ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Servers don’t get paid enough

    That part is true though

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