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Comment on Headteachers in England tell of worsening behaviour of pupils – and parents

tankplanker@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Other parents manage it in the same area, same backgrounds. Besides once kids get to this point in secondary school its usually too late to intervene in place as the behaviours have become in grained.

Cameron cancelling sure start due to his dislike of the state telling parents what to do caused a lot of the long term behaviour problems we are experiencing. However even if you reintroduced it bigger and better than it ever was it still takes around a decade before it showing real improvement at secondary school.

What we need is solutions for the existing cohort, and frankly hand waving what is causing mass disruption for students that actually want to work, lowering their life time outcomes, is not addressing the problem giving them a free pass.

You could introduce UBI tomorrow or double minium wage and it would do next to fuck all for this problem. The parents do not give a shit, and/or do not have the skills, and/or the kids are too far gone to fix the majority of the problem.

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Syldon@feddit.uk ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Other parents manage it in the same area

What a pathetic privileged attitude to have. Some people have no issues in life at all. Being born to the right parents should not be a metric for the benefits you receive in society. You really have no idea the problems some have to face.

I grew up in a deprived area. Both my parents were alcoholics. I grew up learning how to survive the hard way. But I got a lucky break early on. I have paid my way since I was 20 and retired on my own cash at 55. My kids have absolutely no idea what that sort of life entails. This idea that you can put people down because they lost out on the genetic lottery is incredibly insulting.

It is easy to throw a dishonest person into prison and ignore the issue. What a lot do not realise is that honesty comes with security. A lot of people cannot afford to be honest, because they are struggling just to live. To break this cycle, it takes commitment from government to educate and facilitate that move away from this. Something sadly lacking from today’s government, and the people who support them.

As for your comments regrading UBI. I see you provide nothing to back that claim up. Let me help you.

Investing in society makes everyone richer. There are a huge amount of studies that prove this. Accepting that some people are just not worth the effort is a very small minded selfish attitude to have. Instead of believing the crap that the Tory media promote do some research.

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- tankplanker@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  Your link says nothing about improving outcomes of existing secondary school children just that they attend school more. The two are not directly linked, the worst children often have the highest attendance and are often the first ones there and the last to leave as their home life is so bad.
  
  Its also a pathetic privileged attitude to assume that all of these kids are poor.
  
  Equating prison with expelling kids to behavioural schools is just pathetic as well.
  
  F+ for trolling, at least I hope thats what it is.
  
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  - Syldon@feddit.uk ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    
    Your link says nothing about improving outcomes of existing secondary school children just that they attend school more. The two are not directly linked, the worst children often have the highest attendance and are often the first ones there and the last to leave as their home life is so bad.
    
    What gibberish is this? Can you back this up with any evidence? Kids attending school is a benefit. To state anything other than that is beyond crass. I left school without any qualifications at all. I got my qualifications after leaving home. I actively avoided scrutiny at school because it is embarrassing to be forced into confronting the situation I was living in. Again you have absolutely no idea.
    
    You declared these people poor when you stated
    
    Other parents manage it in the same area, same backgrounds.
    
    Equating prison with expelling kids to behavioural schools is just pathetic as well.
    
    I did not. I stated that some find it acceptable to avoid the issue by locking people up. There is a prevalent attitude to penalise being poor and needy. Where as robbing the country of millions is acceptable and something we should support. Imagine how people would be helped by the money Michelle Mone grabbed from the tax payer.
    
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    tankplanker@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    
    To state anything other than that is beyond crass.
    
    Never stated that, please try harder, always stated they should be sent to the correct school for their needs.
    
    Actually you did that first:
    
    We had poor houses not long before this also. People are expected to hold 2 jobs just to live these days. You cannot work long hours and look after kids at the same time. It is this sort of selfish attitude that has empowered the Tories to push the standards as far as we see now. We don’t need a race to the bottom.
    
    I’m revising your trolling rating to a U its that bad.
    
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