Comment on How to stop thinking about an interaction from my past?
mrcleanup@lemmy.world 10 months agoI mean, yes, but they also need to forgive themself for not better understanding the situation and being better able to respond to it. We often blame ourselves for being vulnerable to the abuses of others.
crashfrog@lemm.ee 10 months ago
Sure, if that’s what OP is grappling with. I didn’t read a lot of self-recrimination into their message, but if I was mistaken, then sure - the most important forgiveness is what you offer yourself.